I smell romance....

On Jezebel.com, there's an article entitled: Love: ever been in love with someone and hated his guts at the same time? call it what you want, weather it be an unhealthy relationship, the wants of someone there all the time, or just to analyze the situation: there shore is a thin line between love and hate.
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We've had our shares of television to give us a grip on what being in a relationship is, Carrie & Big of Sex & the city, Zach & Kelly of Saved by the bell and watching these couples act that they are in love makes us yearn for that feeling. Shore, it's fine & dandy when you go through the infactuation stage and when you can't keep your hands off each other. But when you get comfortable, like as in fart in front of your significant other, or the fact that you will probably pick something out of their teeth when they have something stuck it in - it's a bit of fantasy-based reality when you are involved with someone to that certain extent. Love, lust, commitment, relationship - same thing. It's what humans do to give them a certain need or want.
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So why bring this up? It has been said that in a study, the term love, passion & romance come from a study of the scientific survey that come from the same brain tactic - in a sense that both take a lot of energy to feel passion and to feel more passion to hate or love it. Like for instance, you love your man so much -- but when you fight - you want to punch him in his nuts for even saying things that come out of his mouth. This, must be an annoying game of hate VS love but it comes from passion, and with that tangent, we know that love can be blind. And with love blind, it still builds a nero in our system that causes us to be passionate about the person who we are romantically involved in. An, or a hate feeling. It's passion, it counts.
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so, we know that being in love is crazy, although we may not understand each other when we are being in relationship, we just know that it's a feeling. And you can love him or her all you want but bottom line? it's from the same nero in our system. And I know it's confusing, because you want to have built up anger and you can't -- because you love them, then you hate them, feeling or no feeling, it's passion and it comes from the same kind of part in our human body. yeah, it sucks. i know.

don't you smell the romance?

Asian, Chinese , filipino, same thing.

NOT.
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My legal name is Louise Ann Realiza Rodrigo. (Lois for short) 100% Filipino, although I know that the Philippines was founded by the Spainards, founded by Magellan -- hence my last name Rodrigo. The Philippines is an island, so when we check boxes, us Filipinos may check "Filipino", "Pacific Islander" or "other." I don't recall Filipinos being Asian, or anything close to it. I know we are different.
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It must strike you because my last name is Rodrigo, which is usually the first name to a Spanish person, and my first name (Louise Ann) which was originated from my grandfather Luis, (which is a usually a Spanish name) Now in no context is my name related to being Asian at all. If anything, it's more Spanish than anything....
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Yes, most Asians eat rice, and us Filipinos do too. Yes, we take off our shoes in the house, but just because we do have similarities, we are very different in many ways.
Just because we may have the same hair, same height or even some sort of the same style, we have different attitudes, different perspectives and different opinions. I know that we could be easily mistaken as sisters, cousins, whatever. But in reality,
we're tanned. Us Filipinos do have naps in our hair and although some of us women can be petite, we SURE EAT. What's a diet? You drink tea? You take herbal medicines? duuude, get me some real food with some rice. some meat. I've never dieted and I do not think I'd ever diet.

But what's considered race?

in my concern, there's only one kind of race --
and that's human race.

Chinese - Japanese - Korean - Thailand - etc. FILIPINOS. watch out, we got our own box now.

Attention women: would you ever become a sex slave for college?

From madams, to sex slaves, to "massagers" -- prostitution has become a way of living amongst women who are students, in debt and broke. Women are desperate for cash and are willing to sell their souls to pay their way to school. But what they don't know, is the outcome of their innocence being thrown away, the health risks and the philosophy of selling their dignity. Easier said than done, those women who decide to be put as a sex slave will find out that sooner or later, maybe the biggest mistake that they have made for the rest of their lives.

Sex does certainly sell, sex sells in movies, Craig's list, ads in the paper, commercials, clubs, magazine articles and magazine ads, mall pictures, and now even at the "massage parlors." It's literally breathing in the alley way, regiments in the taxi cab , and in the next room where your room mate is getting their freak on. SEX is a human need. We need it to feel better, to produce babies, for our own guilty pleasure.

It used to be such a shocking thing for america, but now sex trafficking can be found anywhere -- from New York, New York, to san francisco - to even countries such as the Philippines - India, Europe and Asian Countries like Korea, China, Japan and so forth. It's kind of like the new trend for women -- and the norm that these women will sell their soul to give money back to their family to survive.

With such a liberal and sinful world , i swear to god we pass this by. We view this as a shocking ordeal, find it to be sad but really, i dont think we do anything remotely close to stopping it. sure, this kind of job can be treated as a DUI, get caught by the police, get in handcuffs, go into a jail for a night or two and then end up owing the government half of your earnings.

is this really worth it?

I dont think women are aware of these consequences, and women that are greedy and want to get that money - more power to the women who want that cheese -- but HELLLOOO --- as bluntly spoken, you'd rather give away free nookie to the dirty man who has a wife and kids because you need a meal? These women have no idea what it is to REALLY WORK if they will continue to run into this type of agencies. I mean, I'm sure the money is great -- reading articles and going thru many sites, women are addicted to the money. they crave it, and if they don't make their ends meet - they go crazy. Now, is it just me or do you think these bitches need to go see a counselor?

RIIIITTTEE??

I'm not saying I'm the cleanest, hail mary virgin. I'm human. But real talk,

i will work my ass off rather than sell my soul to the devil. It's just not worth it.

to all the ladies selling their soul,

think hard about what your doing.

i'm just a woman,

what more if god was standing here?

peace.