On Jezebel.com, there's an article entitled: Love: ever been in love with someone and hated his guts at the same time? call it what you want, weather it be an unhealthy relationship, the wants of someone there all the time, or just to analyze the situation: there shore is a thin line between love and hate.
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We've had our shares of television to give us a grip on what being in a relationship is, Carrie & Big of Sex & the city, Zach & Kelly of Saved by the bell and watching these couples act that they are in love makes us yearn for that feeling. Shore, it's fine & dandy when you go through the infactuation stage and when you can't keep your hands off each other. But when you get comfortable, like as in fart in front of your significant other, or the fact that you will probably pick something out of their teeth when they have something stuck it in - it's a bit of fantasy-based reality when you are involved with someone to that certain extent. Love, lust, commitment, relationship - same thing. It's what humans do to give them a certain need or want.
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So why bring this up? It has been said that in a study, the term love, passion & romance come from a study of the scientific survey that come from the same brain tactic - in a sense that both take a lot of energy to feel passion and to feel more passion to hate or love it. Like for instance, you love your man so much -- but when you fight - you want to punch him in his nuts for even saying things that come out of his mouth. This, must be an annoying game of hate VS love but it comes from passion, and with that tangent, we know that love can be blind. And with love blind, it still builds a nero in our system that causes us to be passionate about the person who we are romantically involved in. An, or a hate feeling. It's passion, it counts.
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so, we know that being in love is crazy, although we may not understand each other when we are being in relationship, we just know that it's a feeling. And you can love him or her all you want but bottom line? it's from the same nero in our system. And I know it's confusing, because you want to have built up anger and you can't -- because you love them, then you hate them, feeling or no feeling, it's passion and it comes from the same kind of part in our human body. yeah, it sucks. i know.
don't you smell the romance?
Thursday, October 30, 2008
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